I am going to attempt to explain in this blog what has been confusing the doctor's since we began. Forgive me if I am too technical, all I am doing is copying information from other websites so that you may be informed. So here we go:
A few weeks ago the doctors took some amniotic fluid from Sheyenne's belly (that's real technical I know) so that they might run some tests in order to determine what is wrong with Whitney. They called us yesterday with the results. They determined that our baby has a genetic disorder called Triploidy. Here's the best way I can describe it... Genetic abnormalities such as Downs Syndrome or Trisomy 18 are conditions caused by an extra copy of one particular chromosome. Triploidy is an extra copy of ALL the chromosomes. Here's a more technical explaination:
"Triploidy is a rare lethal chromosome abnormality caused by the presence of an entire extra set of chromosomes. A fetus with triploidy has 69 chromosomes, rather than 46. The majority of fetuses with triploidy are spontaneously miscarried during pregnancy. Those that survive until birth will have severe growth retardation and multiple birth defects. This condition is incompatible with life."
"Triploidy is a devastating condition caused by having a full extra set of chromosomes. This extra set of chromosomes causes a variety of serious birth defects, placental problems, and severe growth problems in a fetus. In fact, most pregnancies in which the fetus has triploidy end in a spontaneous miscarriage. Very few infants with triploidy survive to term. Of those that do, most are stillborn and those that are born alive usually die shortly after birth. Infants with this lethal condition are generally small due to severe intrauterine growth retardation (IUGR) and they have multiple birth defects, including facial abnormalities, such as cleft lip, heart defects, neural tube defects (spina bifida), and other serious birth defects. The exact pattern of abnormalities depends on whether the extra set of chromosomes was inherited from the mother or from the father. Unfortunately, there is nothing that can be done to treat or cure triploidy."
It is said that Triploidy happens in only 1-2% of ALL conceptions, which makes me laugh because it feels like that makes sense for us. Another stat is 1 in 10,000 make it this far in the pregnancy because most babies die after only a month in the womb.
So where does this leave us now? That really is a great question because we don't really know that answer. As we have been, we will continue to wait and see what happens. We know that the doctors will not do anything "heroic" to save Whitney if she is born alive. I think I can speak for both me and Sheyenne that all we want is to hold our baby girl. So that continues to be our prayer to God, that he would allow us to hold this precious life that we have been so excited to see.
Last night I got to feel her move in Sheyenne's belly for the first time! It truly warmed my heart and now I know that my Christmas wish has come true. If you have any questions please email me (seanwilson8552@gmail.com). Thank you for continuing to read and we will continue to update this as God continues to teach us what we need to learn.
I prayed for you today. Having found your blogs after Sheyenne read my story of love and loss (http://girlstogrow.blogspot.com/2009/12/our-angel-gods-gift.html), I will be following with much interest and prayer as your story unfolds.
ReplyDeleteDear "Blue Eyes" and Sheyenne,
ReplyDeleteI have been following your blog about Whitney......and all I can say is........what a love story this is. You are both amazing as you serve our Awesome God! We love you both......and our prayer for you is that you both get to see and hold your little Whitney before the Lord takes her home with Him...........I know how important that is to you both. You will all be together again one day......
Love and Prayers sent your way,
Hey Brother,
ReplyDeleteLifted you all up in prayer yesterday and will continue. You are an amazing example of submission to His will. Hang in there bro.
Just now read this. Just know we're praying.
ReplyDeleteLove u guys!
Erik & Mel
I stumbled upon your blog from Brie's, I am so sorry to hear/read what you are going through. I can not imagine how heart breaking this diagnosis is for an expecting family. You are in my hear + prayers.
ReplyDeleteI came across your blog from Kelly's Korner. I know the feelings you are feeling right now, as we said gobbye to our daughter 7 months ago, to Anencephaly, a fatal birth defect. I will be praying for comfort and healling for you during this time.
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